It can also be rather complicated no matter where on the Kinsey Scale you fall. Let us be clear in saying that this is not a bad thing. There is nothing wrong with questioning your own sexuality at any age or stage of life, just as there is nothing bad about exploring different techniques in getting off. Anal sex and anal play are seen as strictly homosexual love-making actions, but they are not. Gay men do not have a monopoly on that region of the body.
Does Having Anal Sex Make Me Gay?
Anal stimulation ain't just for gay men | Go Ask Alice!
One of the great things about anal play is that folks of any gender and orientation can enjoy it, not just gay men. The techniques are the same, but a lot of guys express fear about receiving anal pleasure. Receiving anal penetration is often seen as an act of submission, which some people equate with weakness. We often hear stories that tell men that doing anything feminine, submissive, or gay means that they aren't "real men". So, it's not really a surprise that so many men resist the idea of receiving anal stimulation.
Does liking Anal Stimulation make me Gay?
Lots of straight men are turned off by the idea of anal play to be fair, many bi and gay men are too , and as a result are missing out on a whole world of fun. This is the third in a multi-part series from After Hours about anal play. You can see the other posts in the series as they come out here. Seriously though, your anus and rectum are full of nerve endings, just like your penis. Your rectum is also home to your prostate gland , another pleasure center.
First off, there is no direct connection between what we do and who we are, or even who we think we are. Lots of baseball fans drink beer. And yes, lots but not all gay men have anal sex.